Can I be allergic to some intimate gel ingredient and what to use instead of Durex stimulating gel?

Good morning With my partner I used durex intimate gel, during intercourse hell and did not feel pleasure at all. Recently, we also used condoms with stimulating gel and there was exactly the same situation - hell and lack of pleasure. Can I be allergic to any ingredient used in durex gels? If so, are there any other gels, say anti-allergic, that I could use? I would like silicone gel. Is there any company to recommend? I would be very grateful, thank you for your reply